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Privacy & Discretion

Fantasi serves a kink community, where the stakes of being connected to a public identity are often higher. Here's what you control, and what's worth thinking through.

What You Choose to Share

You decide what goes on your profile and in conversation. Before connecting your Fantasi activity to a public-facing identity, it's worth thinking about the consequences if that connection became known — to an employer, family, or your broader community. Consider holding back:

Privacy Tools Actually Built Into Fantasi

Blurred-photo mode

Your real photos stay hidden until you personally approve a specific viewer — even after you've matched.

Black-only visibility

Excludes your profile from Discover, Search, and direct links for everyone below Black tier, unless you approve their request.

Black

Incognito browsing

Browse other profiles without appearing in their "who viewed me" list.

Black

Geofenced exclusion zones

Exclude your profile from Discover and Search for members near a location you choose — your workplace, for instance.

Black

Self-destructing messages

Set a conversation to auto-delete after a chosen window, permanently, for both sides.

Gold & Black

Photo watermarking

Every photo you view carries a faint mark identifying you specifically, so a leaked copy is traceable back to who took it.

Profile visibility controls

Choose whether your location and last-active time are shown, and who's allowed to message you.

A quiet way out

Blocking is instant and silent. The other person is never told, and can't see or contact you unless you undo it.

This list only includes tools we've actually built. Manage these from your Profile and Privacy & Data settings once signed in.