Silver$49 a month
Gold$99 a month
Black$149 a month
Frequently asked questions
Joining, verification, privacy, billing and the rules. Read the FAQ.
How it works
From application to first meeting.
Fantasi takes a little longer to join than a swipe app, on purpose. Here's every step, and what happens at each one.
01Your application is your profile
Say what you want.
Tell us what you want, what you're curious about, and your limits.
- A few minutes
- Read by a person
- Mark your limits
0218+ and ID-verified
Prove it's you.
Every member is 18 or older and verifies a government ID.
- ID + live selfie
- Checked by hand if needed
- Your ID stays private
03No algorithm decides
Read by a person.
A person on our team reads every application.
- No algorithm
- Not guaranteed
- We email you
04Masquerade membership
Choose your mask.
Prepay 1, 3 or 12 months in Bitcoin.
- From $49 a month
- Up to 20% off
- Never auto-renews
05Ranked by compatibility
Discover who fits.
Only people you could match with, ranked by fit.
- 6 picks every Monday
- Every card says why
- Filters on Gold & Black
06Messages and terms
Connect at your own pace.
Like, talk, and agree terms before you meet.
- See who liked you
- Photos by approval
- Terms in writing
07Always · Discretion
Stay as private as you like.
You choose who sees you, and when.
- Blurred photos
- Viewer watermarks
- Hidden zones on Black
- Say what you're afterThe kind of connection you want.
- Mark every kinkInto, curious, soft or hard limit.
- Keep photos blurredUntil you approve each person.
- A person reads itEvery application, by hand.
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What you'll do
- Say what you're looking for. The kind of connection you want from Fantasi.
- Choose your interests. The things you'd like to share with the people you meet.
- Go through the kinks. Mark each one you're into or curious about, and anything that's a limit.
How limits read on your profile
- IntoSomething you enjoy and want to share.
- CuriousSomething you'd like to explore with the right person.
- Soft limitOpen to discussion, with care.
- Hard limitNever. Not up for discussion.
Good to know
- Your date of birth is collected when you register. Any application showing someone is under 18 is rejected.
- Your photos can stay blurred until you approve each person, one at a time.
- Black members can add custom kink tags for anything our list doesn't have.
- Not sure what a term means? The Kink Dictionary is free for anyone, member or not.
- Show a government IDEvery member is 18 or older.
- Match a live selfieVeriff checks it's really you.
- Checked by hand if neededWhen Veriff can't decide.
- Your ID stays privateNever shown to other members.
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What happens
- Your date of birth is collected when you register.
- You verify a government-issued ID. Most people do it through Veriff, which matches it to a live selfie.
- If Veriff can't approve you, a person on our team reviews it by hand.
- Your ID is checked for consistency with the name and age on your application.
The badge means
- The account passed this review.
- A person on our team reviewed it before the profile was visible to anyone.
It doesn't mean
- A criminal background check.
- Anything about someone's intentions or future behaviour.
- That Fantasi endorses them, or that they're "safe".
A badge is one input, not a conclusion. Trust is something you judge over time, from how someone actually communicates and behaves.
- SentYour application reaches our team.
- Read by a personNo algorithm decides.
- A decisionApproval isn't guaranteed.
- We email youThen you choose your mask.
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From sent to approved
- Sent. Your application and verification reach our team.
- Read by a person. Not scored by an algorithm, and not approved automatically.
- A decision. Approval isn't guaranteed.
- We email you. When yours is approved, you'll hear from us.
Good to know
- Nobody sees a single profile until they've verified a government ID and a person has read their application.
- You choose your level, Silver, Gold or Black, only once you're accepted.
- You can't pay for anything until your application is approved and your identity verified.
- Pick your maskSilver $49, Gold $99, Black $149 a month.
- Pay in BitcoinOur own checkout. No card details.
- Stay longer, pay less10% off 3 months, 20% off a year.
- Nothing renews on its ownWe remind you a week before.
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The three masks
Silver$49 a month
Discover and weekly picks, 50 likes a day, messages, blurred photos and watermarks, groups and events.
Gold$99 a month
Everything in Silver, plus 100 likes a day, detailed search filters, terms in writing, disappearing messages, private notes and posting in the forum.
Black$149 a month
Everything in Gold, plus unlimited likes, hidden zones, incognito browsing, Black-only visibility, saved searches, custom kink tags and a personal concierge.
Paying
- You pay on Fantasi's own checkout, which runs on our own server (BTCPay Server). Fantasi never receives your bank or card details.
- The checkout holds the Bitcoin exchange rate for 60 minutes. Your membership starts once the network confirms the payment, usually within 10 to 30 minutes.
- Blockchain payments are public records. If that matters to you, pay from a wallet you keep for this purpose.
Renewing, upgrading, refunds
- We email you a week before your membership ends and again the day before. Renewing early adds the new months to the end, so it never costs you anything.
- If you don't renew, your profile, matches and messages are kept for when you come back.
- Upgrade any time: the value of your remaining time becomes extra days on the new level.
- Ask within 3 business days of your first purchase for a full refund, no questions asked.
- Ranked by fitYour best matches come first.
- Every card says whyShared kinks, nearby, active today.
- Six picks every MondayChosen for you, every week.
- Boost once a day30 minutes at the front of Discover.
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How Discover works
- Only possible matches. People who want what you want, on both sides.
- Ranked by compatibility. The people you're most likely to click with come first.
- Every card says why. Shared kinks, how near they are, whether they're active today.
By level
| Silver | Gold | Black | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Weekly picks | 6 | 6 | 6 |
| Likes a day | 50 | 100 | Unlimited |
| Boost | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Detailed filters | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Private notes | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Saved searches | — | — | ✓ |
Good to know
- A Boost puts you at the front of Discover for 30 minutes, once every 24 hours.
- Filters search by kinks (any or all), what someone is looking for, and words in their profile.
- Gold and Black members can add a short intro video; Black members can watch them.
- Like someoneTheir card shows if they liked you first.
- Talk one to oneBlock or report in a tap.
- Ask to see photosThey approve, one person at a time.
- Agree terms in writingCountersigned before you meet.
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From a like to a first meeting
- Like someone. If they've already liked you, their card says so.
- Message one to one. Block or report is always a tap away.
- Ask to see private photos. They stay blurred until the other person approves you.
- Put it in writing. Send terms the other person countersigns: what you want, your boundaries, your limits. Gold and Black
- Meet when you're ready. Read our guide to meeting in person first.
Disappearing messages
Gold and Black members can set a conversation to vanish after 5 minutes, an hour, a day or a week, for both of you.
More than one to one
- Join groups for what you're into, RSVP to events, and talk in chatrooms kept for your level.
- Gold and Black members can post in the forum and host groups and events.
- Blur your photosRevealed one person at a time.
- Every photo watermarkedIt names whoever is viewing.
- Let messages vanishGold and Black.
- Hide near home or workBlack.
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Every level
- Blurred-photo mode. Your photos stay blurred until you approve someone, one person at a time.
- Watermarks. Each photo carries a faint mark naming whoever is viewing it, and right-click saving and dragging are switched off.
- Block. Instant and silent, and it lasts until you undo it.
- Report. Read by a person on our safety team. The member is never told who sent it.
Gold and Black
- Disappearing messages. A conversation that vanishes for both of you.
Black
- Hidden zones. Set a place and a radius, from half a mile to 100 miles, for home and for work. Members inside it aren't shown your profile in Discover.
- Incognito browsing. Look around without appearing in anyone's list of who viewed them.
- Black-only visibility. Vanish from Discover and Search for everyone below Black.
A watermark identifies the viewer. It can't prevent screenshots, photographs of a screen, or all copying.
Questions
Still curious?
Talk to a person
Write to support@fulfillmyfantasi.com and someone will answer. Support.
By invitation
Your invitation starts here.
Every membership begins with an application. It takes a few minutes, and a person reads every one.