That's the whole standard. It applies to every interaction on Fantasi, and to everything that might happen after one.
None of These Are Consent
It's worth saying plainly, because it's easy to blur these together:
Consent can be withdrawn at any moment, by anyone, for any reason — including partway through something already underway.
Talking It Through
Good communication isn't a mood-killer — it's what makes the rest of it work. Depending on the situation, that might mean talking about:
- Boundaries and limits, plainly stated
- What you're each looking for from the interaction
- Safewords or nonverbal signals, and what they mean
- Checking in with each other as things go
- Whether either of you is intoxicated or otherwise not able to consent clearly — if so, wait
- Whether anything will be photographed or recorded, and who that's shared with, if anyone
- What aftercare looks like for each of you
- That either of you can change your mind, at any point, without needing to justify it
For BDSM & Kink Interactions Specifically
If what you're exploring involves power exchange, impact, restraint, or other kink dynamics, it's worth being explicit about:
- What you actually intend to do, described plainly
- Experience level, where it's relevant to safety
- Hard limits and soft limits, if you use those terms
- A safeword or signal, and what happens the moment it's used
- Any physical considerations (injuries, health conditions, medications)
- How the scene ends, and what aftercare looks like afterward
This page is about communication and consent, not technique — we're not going to walk you through how to do anything physically. If you're new to a particular kink, that conversation with an experienced, trusted partner (or a dedicated educational resource) matters more than anything we could put here.