Inside Fantasi

Everything you need to find each other.

Meet the right people, talk privately, and stay in control of who sees you. Try each part below.

Discover

Ranked by compatibility.

The people you're most likely to click with come first, with the reasons why. Six weekly picks arrive every Monday.

50 likes left today

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Messages & terms

Talk privately, then put it in writing.

When you're ready, send terms the other person countersigns before you meet: what you want, your boundaries, your limits.

  • Terms in writingGold and Black
  • Disappearing messagesGold and Black
J.Active today
Disappear
Terms betweenYou & J.
DraftSigned
What I want

Slow evenings, a check-in before and after, one new thing at a time.

My boundaries

We meet somewhere public first. No photos.

My limits

Anything we haven't written down here.

A preview. Nothing you type here is sent anywhere.

Privacy

You decide who sees you.

Flip a switch and watch your profile change.

See every privacy control
YouAs another member sees you

Blurred until you approve someone, one person at a time.

Community

More than one-to-one.

Groups for what you're into, events on the calendar, and rooms kept for your level.

Upcoming

Events, on the calendar

See the month at a glance and RSVP as going or interested. Hosts can tie an event to their group.

October
This month
YGoing
Explore

Groups for what you're into

Active now

Rooms for your level

BThe Black RoomBlack members

A preview with example members. Nothing you type here is sent anywhere.

Explore the community
By level

Silver, Gold and Black.

Apply first. You choose your level once you're accepted.

Features included with Silver, Gold and Black membership
FeatureSilver$49 a monthGold$99 a monthBlack$149 a month
Meeting people
Discover, ranked by compatibilityProfiles ordered by how well you match.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Weekly picksSix people chosen for you, every Monday.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Daily likesHow many people you can like each day.50100Unlimited
BoostThe front of Discover for 30 minutes, once every 24 hours.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Intro videoA short video so people can hear you before they meet you. Gold and Black members can add one; Black members can watch them.Not includedAddAdd & watch
Private notesA note on any member that only you can see.Not includedIncludedIncluded
Search
Detailed filtersBy kinks (any or all), what someone is looking for, and words in their profile.Not includedIncludedIncluded
Saved searchesKeep the searches you use and run them again in a tap.Not includedNot includedIncluded
Custom kink tagsAdd the tags our list doesn't have, so your profile says it your way.Not includedNot includedIncluded
Talking
Interests and messagesSee who's noticed you and talk privately.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Terms in writingAn agreement the other person countersigns, before you meet.Not includedIncludedIncluded
Disappearing messagesA conversation that vanishes after 5 minutes, an hour, a day or a week, for both of you.Not includedIncludedIncluded
Discretion
Blurred photosHidden until you approve someone, one person at a time.IncludedIncludedIncluded
WatermarksEvery photo names whoever is viewing it.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Hidden zonesStay out of sight near home or work.Not includedNot includedIncluded
Incognito browsingLook around without appearing in anyone's views.Not includedNot includedIncluded
Seen only by Black membersChoose to be visible to other Black members only.Not includedNot includedIncluded
Service
Groups, events and chatroomsJoin groups, RSVP to events, and talk in chatrooms kept for your level.IncludedIncludedIncluded
Post in the forum, host groups and eventsStart the conversation, or bring people together.Not includedIncludedIncluded
Personal conciergeTravel plans and personal requests, handled by a dedicated contact.Not includedNot includedIncluded
The Kink Dictionary is free for anyone, member or not. More about membership
By invitation

Your invitation awaits.

Every membership begins with an application. It takes a few minutes, and a person reads every one.

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