Age confirmation
Date of birth is collected at registration, and any application indicating an applicant is under 18 is rejected outright. No exceptions, no shortcuts.

Not just paying — age-confirmed, ID-verified, and personally reviewed before they ever see a match. Payment alone has never kept anyone safe; verification does. But every interaction still involves your own judgment — this page is where we put the resources to help you use it.
Membership is never granted on payment alone. Every profile passes through the same review before it becomes visible to anyone else.
Date of birth is collected at registration, and any application indicating an applicant is under 18 is rejected outright. No exceptions, no shortcuts.
Government ID is required before a profile can browse at all. It's checked through Veriff, which compares your ID with a live selfie, or by our team from an ID photo and selfie you upload, and a person approves every application. This applies to every member.
A member of our trust and safety team reads every application personally. Nothing is approved automatically.
Verification confirms the government ID a member submitted is consistent with the age and name on their application, reviewed by a person before their profile becomes visible. It is not a criminal background check, and Fantasi does not screen or approve a member's criminal history, personal history, intentions, or behavior.
Treat an Identity Verified badge as exactly what it is — proof an account completed our verification process, never a guarantee that another member is trustworthy or safe. Use your own judgment in every interaction, especially before sharing personal information or meeting in person.
Learn About Identity Verification →Blocking is instant, needs no explanation, and lasts until you choose to undo it.
Every report is read by a person on our trust and safety team — not silently closed by a filter. Blocking is instant, needs no explanation, and lasts until you choose to undo it. Need to reach us directly? support@fulfillmyfantasi.com.
Tools built into the platform, not bolted on after.
Every member photo you view carries a faint mark identifying you specifically — so a leaked or screenshotted copy is traceable back to who took it. Right-click-save and drag are disabled too. No web technique can block a photo of the screen itself; this makes leaking one traceable instead.
A Black member can opt to be invisible to everyone below Black tier — excluded from Discover, Search, and direct profile links alike. Silver and Gold can still request access; the member decides who gets in.
Your real photo stays hidden until you personally approve someone to see it — even after you've matched.
Blocking is instant and silent. The other person is never told, and can't see or contact you unless you undo it.
Gold and Black members can set a conversation to auto-delete after a chosen window — for both sides, permanently.
Gold and Black members can keep a private note about anyone — visible only to them, never to the person it's about.
Black members can disappear for anyone near their home or work. Choose a place and a radius, and members inside it won't be shown your profile in Discover.
Black members can browse without appearing in anyone's list of who viewed them, so looking around never announces itself.
What verification does — and doesn't — tell you about another member.
Before, during, and after — practical steps for meeting someone new.
Protect identifying information and recognize common red flags.
Consent is specific, informed, voluntary, and ongoing — always.
Warning signs to watch for, and what to do if something feels off.
Control what you share, and understand the tools that protect you.
How to use Fantasi's blocking and reporting tools, and what happens next.