It's good to be curious.

Fantasi is a private, members-only community for adults exploring kink, fantasy and connection. Members are ID-verified, applications are read by a person, and profiles say clearly what each person wants and where their limits are.

Consenting adults aged 18 and over who are into kink, BDSM, power exchange, ethical non-monogamy, or simply curious. Members can be any gender or orientation, and choose who they would like to meet.

Applying is free, and nothing is charged until your application has been approved. After that, Fantasi is a paid membership. See Masquerade membership for the three levels.

Create your profile, verify your ID, and a person on our team reads your application. Once you are approved we email you, and you choose a membership. How it works covers each step.

We email you when your application is approved. Approval is at our discretion and is not guaranteed.

Each account belongs to one ID-verified adult. When you set up your profile, you can say you are interested in meeting couples.

So every member is a real adult who is who they say they are. Nobody can see a profile until their verification and application are done.

Most members verify through Veriff, which matches a government ID to a live selfie. If Veriff cannot approve you automatically, a member of our team reviews your ID and selfie by hand.

No. Your ID and selfie are seen only by Veriff and, if your check needs reviewing by hand, by an administrator. They are never shown on your profile.

No. Verification confirms identity and age; it is not a criminal background check. Our guide to meeting in person explains how to meet safely.

Use Report on their profile or in your conversation. Every report is read by a person, and the member is never told who reported them. You can also block anyone in one tap. See Reporting.

With blurred-photo mode on, your photos stay blurred until you approve someone, one person at a time. Every photo also carries a faint watermark naming whoever is viewing it.

Black members can hide from anyone near their home or work, be visible only to other Black members, and browse incognito. Every member can block anyone in one tap.

No. We never sell your personal data. Our Privacy Policy explains what we collect and why.

Nothing from Fantasi: membership is paid in Bitcoin, so we never hold your card details.

Send a deletion request from the Privacy & Data page in the app. Every request is handled by a person, and we aim to respond within 30 days.

Silver is $49 a month, Gold $99 and Black $149. Prepaying 3 months saves 10%, and a year saves 20%.

In Bitcoin, through Fantasi's own checkout, once your application has been approved.

No. You pay for 1, 3 or 12 months at a time, and nothing renews on its own. We remind you before it ends.

Yes. When you upgrade, the time you have already paid for carries over at its value.

A first purchase can be refunded in full within 3 business days. See Billing & refunds for the details.

Silver includes messaging, weekly picks, groups and events. Gold adds detailed filters, posting in the forum, hosting groups and events, the Terms builder, private notes and disappearing messages. Black adds incognito, hidden zones, a personal concierge and unlimited likes. Compare the levels.

Offering or asking for money, gifts or anything of value in exchange for sex, any commercial sexual service, anyone under 18, sharing intimate images without consent, harassment and threats. Read the Community Guidelines.

Yes. Every member can join groups and RSVP to member events. Gold and Black members can host their own groups and events.

A free glossary of kink and relationship terms written in plain language. Browse the Kink Dictionary.